A FEW OF THE MANY LOVELY NOTES WE'VE RECEIVED...

We are humbled and grateful to have received many, many kind letters, and have added a few of them here.

You two and your home are proof that it's not about the house size, or money, or the number of antiques someone has. It is about a rare feeling that one instantly gets looking at the photos on your site. LOVE everything that you have done so much."

Thank you,

K.H. "

Read more lovely comments from people below on this page.

 

MAY, 2024~

"Honest to pete you guys, your home and gardens are stunning. I recently watched a Youtube channel that features people's homes with similar antiques, but sincerely yours blows them out of the water!! They were nice, but no one seems to have captured the simplicity, bygone New England romance, or genuineness of your house. The fact that this is your true lifestyle and not something 'for show' is so appealing. Wondered why your home is missing from the Youtube lady's channel.

You two and your home are proof that it's not about the house size, or money, or the number of antiques someone has. It is about a rare feeling that one instantly gets looking at the photos on your site. LOVE everything that you have done so much."

Thank you,

K.H.

Hi Mary:

Hope you are well...just wanted to say how much I am enjoying your new photos and projects...and those baby ducklings, are just too cute!  Thanks for sharing the cheery bird sounds and scrumptious photos....

Best,
MaryEllen Dearstyne

PS....I saw some small wall wooden wall trellis at Brimfield last week...they were $50 each and not nearly as pretty as your tripod trellis!

Hi Mary ~  Absolutely Stunning and Beautiful!!!  Thank you for Sharing.  So envious of your talent for decorating Inside and Out.  Your Antiques are breathtaking.  Do have a marvelous Fall Season!!!

Blessings,
Sandy
Patzman

"Adam and Mary,

I love the new look with the painting! You are both THE influencers. I have followed your adventures for years. You were the first to have a 17thc. bed (by far the best one I've seen), the first to have a hanging livery, wall aging, and so much more. You influenced everyone else who loves that early feel. You are so knowledgable and know exactly what to do. You are talented and authentic, and you do your own thing to perfection. You don't try to make a little New England home look like a manor house or a Plimoth 'hovel'. Your home is still the BEST.

Jan"

"Adam and Mary, You should not only be featured IN a book, you should write a book! Everything about you and your home is AMAZING!~L.M."

"Dear Mary, Last night after finally going to bed I read your sweet and kind email. I almost cried because I knew you would say something nice because that’s how you are, but you were so up-building to me. l felt bad that I had  had qualms about you even seeing the room. Its just not up to your perfect and beautiful standards. Everything you do is absolutely the best. Your house is the best, number one I have ever seen or probably ever will. So thank you dear Mary I love you, Joy Henson



"I do feel like a lucky subscriber! Happy to get another newsletter! Felt like I was on  a walk with you two picking berries. I was a fan of your blog and really loved your stories about coming to New England, working on your house , how you met Adam ,your beautiful wedding...all of it. Unfortunately, I was visiting your blog on my work computer and was not able to comment. I did not have a home computer at that time.  I have retired ,since that time ,and of  course have a computer...no face book or blog ....
I just felt compelled to tell you how much I enjoy everything on your site. I must tell you I tried the green bean tomato salad . Our beans and tomatoes are in abundance right now in my  Minnesota garden. It was wonderful .....a big hit at my family cookout!!!

Have a good rest of the week

Kathleen P."

"For the past 19 years, I have felt that our home reflected my absolute joy in living in our brown half cape in Canterbury.  I know it does. However, touring your site this morning makes me feel that I have been surpassed.  Now I need to get going again with a project. Your site is so inspiring!!!! Seeing your projects and how they reflect your sincere joy of life makes me inspired to gather some energy and add to my little piece of heaven.   Thank you again for sharing.    ~Sue B."

"Mon, Oct 18, 2021 at 7:17 PM
Dear Mary and Adam,  My heart hurts to hear of your precious hen innocently walking too far away from home….your animals are so blessed to have the care and love you both give them…You both are such good people…I’m so glad I have gotten to know you.  With love, dale"

A REALLY NICE EMAIL WE RECEIVED FROM 'COUNTRY GENTLEMEN', BOB AND STEVEN~

"Love looking at your website Mary. You guys are incredibly hard workers.  We must not have been online when your hourglass was first posted. Wish we would have seen it. Sorry it got sold. We have started collecting them and yours was a fine example. If you ever get another one, please let us know. Again, your house and yard looks beautiful. Thanks so much for sharing.

Bob and Steven, The Country Gentlemen"

Dear Mary,

It has been such a long time since I've written you.  I go to your website and am in awe of your many projects and all the changes your home and yard have gone through.  It is truly a beautiful, warm home with such outstanding antiques.  Sometimes I think you just couldn't find one more amazing project to do and you and Adam accomplish something spectacular.  Your talents are so many.....thank you for
being so inspiring to so many.
We have changed our email address to_________.  I just
wanted to get your emails and make sure I heard about all your projects. I hope you both are well and I'm sure you are so excited about your little chicks coming.  Wishing you both all the best....

with love, Dale D.

May 30, 2021~


"Hi Mary! 

I sure hope you and Adam are enjoying your Anniversary weekend so much.

My hubs is working so no fun for us...We don't work the same schedule so it makes getting projects done or any getaway time challenging. Only a few more years and then retirement!!! 

Any way- here's a little glimpse of our little barn with her new windows . We still have much to do before it's finished but at least I can enjoy it and start some seeds for the garden.

Thank you for being interested in seeing our life..I know you're followed by so many people but you take time to make others feel special..You're a rare breed Miss Mary!~Deby Harder" 

May 27, 2021~

"A belated Happy Anniversary!  I’ve been enjoying the pictures on your website and drooling!  Everything looks amazing inside and outside!  You must be happy for Spring weather so you can garden again!  We have been having A LOT of rain but, I still manage to work in my gardens.  We are amazed how lush everything is after a horrible Arctic blast in February, rare low temperatures.  Your stone path to front door is perfect, job well done (as usual)!  Your compost bins are great, wonderful idea to use pallets.  Wood has become so expensive as has many other things.  Have a fantastic summer and, thank you for sharing your talents with us.  May you have many more happy healthy years together.

Fondly, Carol
Wiegard"

January, 2021~

"Dear Mary...I remember your candlelit dinner so well...it was magical...My husband and I came to your lovely home for my birthday present.  I had found your website many years ago ....your home was my dream home.  Everything about your home, your antiques, your taste was absolutely breathtaking...I was so excited to actually come to your home and have a delicious dinner....and it was the home I loved....such a moment in my life that I will always hold dear to me...thank you, dale"

"You two are an example of "getting along" in this depressing time. Your doings and pictures are positive enlightenments. (I don't think that is even a word, but you get my meaning).  Have fun with your growing family.   Sue Batchelder."

March 17, 2020

"Thank you, Mary, and good wishes to you and Adam, as well.

Your newsletters and photos about your animals and life on your wonderful old homestead help make things better and bring some good cheer in this crazy new world. Please keep them coming......they are a breath of fresh air!

Stay well.

Freddi"

"Jan. 13, 2020~

Oh thank you so much! I need more interesting  books and videos to read and watch during these long winter days. History is one of my favorites. I've said this before, you really have a gift for writing!!! Have you ever considered writing your memories in a book?  You are an exceptional woman with an adventure to tell. I remember one of my favorite stories, when you had a blog ,was how you and Adam met...along with EVERTHING  you wrote about!

Hope you have a grand day!!I

Your newsletter friend Kathleen P."

Hello Mary , 

         "I would love to receive your newsletter by email. Love all your Christmas . Your chickens and ducks are precious . Can’t wait to see more . You have the magic touch and everything you do is perfect . 
Thanks again 
Merry Christmas, Sherry Baggett"


Bees ,and chicken ladies,ducks and a goose oh my!!  You both are doing a grand job!!  Your Bee meadow is beautiful. I didn't realize the different aspects of Bee keeping, such as treating for mites, or that they sealed themselves into hive and lived off honey in winter..more than one imagines when it comes to Bee keeping...really fascinating.  I don't think I've ever seen honey as beautiful, as in that jar, with light streaming  through!

I love your news letters and am sorry not to have commented  more and kept in touch!  Your autumn photos are stunning!! 
Happy thoughts from your newsletter friend!!!
Kathleen P.

Jan 4, 2020~

"Dear Mary,

I cannot express how very much I enjoy reading about your homestead and your animals.  I think that is so true of so many.  You and Adam have done so much work on your home and it encourages others to try to do the same...you inspire.  Your period home is a dream to me and others, so we live through you... 

  You are in another chapter....I wish you both a blessed New Year and good health for you both...Take care of each other and enjoy those little animals....I send my love,  dale

P.S.  It broke my heart to hear of your little Yorkie passing...I too had a Yorkie and they are so adorable...

Your little Pippa is darling and Im sure will keep you laughing and busy:)"

"December, 2019~What a lovely newsletter! You have such a talent for writing and I imagined it all as I read. I truly am happy for you two and all your little pets!!  So
sorry to hear of the loss of your little Deladis ,always such a sad thing. I know your new little Pippa  will bring you much happiness. She is  adorable!  I so loved the photos you put up of your ducks and goose, and  chicken girls in their little red scarves. How can one not smile at that!     
Here's a big wish for you two, that 2019 will be grand and wonderful and a very Merry Christmas!!!I

Your newsletter friend:  Kathleen P."


"Nov. 30, 2019~Your site pictures are to die for.  Such a home filled with love and beautiful decorations!
You always amaze me with your talent and decorating and cooking abilities.  Really, I have never seen anyone's home as beautiful as yours and Adams.  Makes me homesick!
The chickens and ducks look absolutely precious with their scarves and hats, I just crack up looking at them.  Can't wait to show them to my granddaughters, especially Gianna, she loves all animals so much...

Love, Hugs and Xmas Kisses,
Mary D."

"Mary,
 
I absolutely love your letters!!  Your Cape is grand!!
I hope you both have a wonderful and blessed Christmas and
great luck with your new doggie!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!
Give the feathered friends an extra scoop of seed for me!
 
Becky"

"Mary & Adam, you never cease to amaze or dazzle. You two are such a fun, Romantic couple and your talents are just incredible. Love all your stories, recipes & gorgeous fall decor. I will be waiting with baited breath for your Christmas pics.  
Thank you for sharing your journey with so many of us.
Happy Autumn 
Donna from Canada "

"Mary and Adam, You guys teach everyone else out there how to 'do it right'! Your talent and taste is impeccable...JAY"

"Thank you for sharing your lovely dinner with me . Mary you are so special with so much to offer in life and full of love.....Maryann Stolar"


"Ahh...so many people seem to be jumping on a 'Pilgrim' bandwagon now. You guys are true originals, and no one does the early feel as beautifully and authentically as you do. You truly have created an early home with so much heart and soul...~Sue"

"Wow, you have made my day!

Wow Mary,  I just looked at those beautiful windows and your new pictures, and the house just looks fantastic!  I did not think it could look any more awesome than it did but the recent projects are just simply wonderful!  I am enjoying my items I bought from you and just wish you and Adam a Happy Thanksgiving!  Kindly, 

Sally Spaulding, Hazard Primitives."

"Dear Mary,

...I love that you have the most wonderful, well chosen antiques and have kept it simple, without the clutter I see in other homes. Your home is my favorite of all time---perfect, and you and Adam are so talented, and always unique and a class act all the way. Kathy M."

"Mare,

 ...Nothing can come close to your and Adam's home, both of you are so talented and pay so much attention to detail that it makes me so happy, and I can dream in it all.  Thank you so much for allowing me to enjoy seeing it anytime...M.D."

"...Country Lady Antiques. Please pop in to this wonderful website. You could not wish to meet two nicer 16th-17th century enthusiasts.

~V., From the UK"

"Oh my goodness! The decorations, the food, your fabulous home, the darling chickens, ducks and goose in their winter attire...all so incredibly WONDERFUL!

THANK YOU! And best wishes for a very joyous Christmas and happy New Year.

Freddi"



Hello Mary,

I was so excited to find your website! I was going thru an old issue of Early Homes when I saw your article. 

You used your wonderful limner talents for us on new brick in an old cape that we had on Snow Road in Effingham.  The aging technique made a huge improvement. I think the year was probably 2002 or thereabouts. 

After my husband passed away I moved back (2004) to my childhood home in NH. It's a 1806, brick-end Federal in the historic district. I made a few changes to make it my own and am very happy here. Being an old house there's always a lot of things that need fixing and doing but that's the nature of the beast. And I love old houses so am happy to do it.

I was totally enchanted with your website....and so happy to see you've found someone to share your life with you. Your photos are sheer eye-candy.  Can't believe all you've done to your home, yard, and gardens.  I loved it when I saw it many years ago and now it's even more amazing!

I'd like to sign-up for your newsletter, and if your husband starts to make the treen candlesticks again, please let me know.

Also, do you and your husband do programs for historical societies and other related clubs?  If so I'd love to hear about them.  I'm the curator (volunteer) of two little museums that our town historical society owns and we're always on the look-out for speakers/programs. As is another organization I belong to, the Questers.

Be well, Mary.

Fredricka (Freddi) Olson"


"...You are both amazing! Why aren't you two and your fantastic home in every magazine out there?!~K.B."

"Dear Mary,
I just want you to know how much I enjoy your
newsletter, all of your projects,and of course
all of your pictures.  Your home is absolutely
precious and you both work so hard doing each
project....Its such a piece of history and I'm
sure so many wish our homes were like yours.

Take care...
              love,
                  dale:)"

Written by Joy Henson, 2014. For Mary and Adam when they got the beautiful table~

The long awaited will be here on Friday
It's hard to believe Its from so far away
Across an ocean and over land
All according to Mary,s grand plan
And there it will be a table so old
That you can only wonder how it's
History unfolds
Oh lovely parlor oh sturdy chair oh
Court cupboard and chest so fair 
What a love filled room the Spencer's
Have

Thank you old England we are hand and hand.

Love you both~ Joy

"Hello Mary and Adam,


I've read your blog for years, and can't begin to tell you how very much I admire what you two have been able to accomplish in your little slice of New Hampshire!  I always look forward to your newest projects, and so I felt today was about high time I requested to receive your newsletter. 
More years ago than I can remember Mary, I saw your home in a magazine.  At that time I ordered a sugar cone from you, that believe it or not, I still have in my dining room.  Way back then, I thought your home was wonderful, and it was, but nothing like it is today.  Today, "simple perfection" best describes it...

~Mike Peradotti"

"Hello Mary and Adam,

I have enjoyed your blog for years Mary and would like to subscribe to your newsletter. I share your love of history and appreciate your choosing to "live it".

My husband and I have lived in our 200 yr. old farmhouse for 35 yrs. and love every drafty window and creaky floorboard.

I look forward to your lovely house updates and projects. You both have created an inviting and inspiring atmosphere." ~LW

"...I trawled through all of the photos of the your home and gardens and am amazed with all you have done over the years, and am truly impressed by all of the detail and attention you've given everything. Wow is all I have to say. I hope your home is an inspiration to others in the neighborhood and beyond.~Chris Morse"

"Mary,
That does it!  I'm on my way over for some shrimp salad and red velvet cake (my favorite).  What a fantastic cook you are!  I so remember the wonderful lunch we had with you and Adam.
Your new doors are wonderful and look simply perfect, again, you two are a wonder!
I'm so enjoying all the pictures and news of your old homestead.  Thank you so much, you brighten my days as I picture it all in my mind.  I'll take two dozen eggs.  Tee hee....
Hugs,

Mary D."

I do feel like a lucky subscriber! Happy to get another newsletter! Felt like I was on  a walk with you two picking berries. I was a fan of your blog and really loved your stories about coming to New England, working on your house, how you met Adam , your beautiful wedding...all of it. Unfortunately, I was visiting your blog on my work computer and was not able to comment. I did not have a home computer at that time.  I have retired , since that time and of  course have a computer...no facebook or blog ....
I just felt compelled to tell you how much I enjoy everything on your site. I must tell you I tried the green bean tomato salad . Our beans and tomatoes are in abundance right now in my  Minnesota garden. It was wonderful .....a big hit at my family cookout!!!

Have a good rest of the week

Kathleen P.

...Your home is my favorite of all I have seen in New England. You are both so genuine and gracious, and your home exudes something special that I can't put my finger on. It's not about being big, or about lots of money---It's about a feeling. There is something mighty special about your little cape in New Hampshire. I agree with other's here---You both have exquisite and unerring taste, as well as historical knowledge, admirable dedication, and so much talent. You really have created a home, and someplace that visitors never want to leave... T. R.

...Adam and Mary, you guys are a class act---the best!~A.R.

Oh, Mary - it all looks WONDERFUL!!!  You both must be on cloud nine!!!  I wish for you a beautiful New England fall.  Thank you so much for sharing your life with me.  Blessings - Cathy Mc Quinn

Mary and Adam,
Just a few lines to say just saw the new newsletter.  Wow!!! Beautiful. Just when I think your home and property can't get any better, you do it again. Absolutely breathtaking!

Must go back and look again, you made my day... unlike this hot hot hot desert where I live.  I look forward to more pictures.  Hugs, Mary Doley

Mary and Adam,
Just had to drop you another line.  The newsletter pictures are unbelievable, they are just gorgeous.  Your home and property couldn't be any more beautiful, indeed you both live in heaven on earth.  All your hard work really shows in every picture.  Just lovely!
Thank you so much, for again, you brightened my day.
Hugs,
Mary
Doley


Dear Mary and Adam,
I have enjoyed your blog for years and watching all your improvements to your lovely home.  Your work on your house simply takes my breath away, you two are a marvel and so talented.  I love your chickens and the two new babies and everything about your country life.  What talent you both have!  I would love to receive your newsletter and purchase your white salt if still available.  So many items on your site and my wish list...

Hugs,

Mary E. D.

I am so pleased to have found your wonderful site. I am a history major who has participated in many reenactments.  Many of my family members fought in the American Revolution. People in the Midwest think I am crazy. I would love to live your kind of life and might even marry again could I find a like minded gentleman. I  look forward to seeing more of your pictures, antiques, reproductions, and information of the period.

Thank you,

Janice H.

"Dear Mary, I was just checking your pages, how I enjoy seeing all of your wonderful antiques, your fabulous early home and grounds. I also want to tell you how much I love the Bannister arm chair and beam I purchased from you. The more primitive side of the beam is the part you see as it is used as the mantle on my stone fireplace. I have pewter and early lighting on it. And the arm chair, is just the best! It is one of the most special pieces that I have. It is next to my 18th c. server, for lack of a better word, that still retains the early red wash. Hanging on the BB is a small leather purpose bag with a powder horn attached by a slim leather strip. Just thought I would let you know how special the antiques are that I purchased from you.
I hope spring will come early to New Hampshire. Still looking for a small shoefoot, early hutch table, possibly round, if you should run across one. Also want to tell you how wonderful your shipper was. She's so sweet, I wanted to "mother" her a bit. She had such a long way to go from here.
This has gotten too long, your eyes must be tired!
My very best to you and Adam
Nancy Gorzelanski"

"Dear Mary and Adam,
We just wanted to let you know how much we have enjoyed seeing the restoration on the upstairs room.  You have thought of everything and really did it all to perfection!
The window was the finishing touch and just beautiful!  As always we think you are a most talented couple.  Looking forward to the Christmas tour.  Have a great and safe holiday.  We love the turners chair and thank you for the opportunity to be able to purchase it.
Sincerely,
Marlin and Carol Larson"

WOW!  Your home looks amazing, a positive change!  I love shingled homes and yours is perfect!  The setting, shed, chicken coop, oven, gardens, etc. are fantastic and so well done.  I know you both work very hard to achieve your dream of an early house and setting.  You get an A+!  Thank you for sharing these pictures.  Send us some cool Fall weather and colored leaves...

Job well done!

All the best,

Carol Wiegard

Mary and Adam your home is spectacular ....absolutely wonderful....so happy for you both...A dream come true!...love dale di maria

Mary, 


Your life seems like a beautiful dream. The homestead looks absolutely perfect and for those of us stuck in suburbia, well there are no words. I know when I see an email from you it is time to grab a cup of coffee and drift away to another era. 

Thank you soooo very much for the time and effort you and Adam put into sharing life with those of us out here in cyberspace. 

~Deborah Harder

Always the best, always so lovely, always so well done and presented......Donna K.

Dear Adam and Mary,

You two are the real deal and your home is perfect, your antiques superb quality, and knowledgeably and thoughtfully chosen--Your home is my favorite one of all in New England. It's not for show; It is gorgeous and homey, and a home with a heart and soul.

Sandy

countryladyantiques@yahoo.com

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